Out of curiousity for the Gay life style.. i was wondering..?

We see them in the same sense that a brother and sister might see each other. We don't feel grossed out, or hateful, or admiration, we have no emotional reactions to their bodies what-so-ever. There isn't a defining moment when you "decided" you don't want anything to do with the opposite , it is a slow process that can take many years. Usually within that process you wonder what it would be like to be with both a man and woman. In relationship there are no gender roles. doing the dishes just mean washing food off of plates there is nothing feminine or masculine about it.